Thursday 30 January 2014

How does one become a better conversationalist?

Found a beautiful post on Quora...

For the short term:
  1. Ask others open ended questions about themselves
  2. Listen to what they say with genuine interest.
  3. Ask more questions about what you've heard
  4. Express some genuine positive and/or supportive remarks about what they've told you.
  5. Relate your own similar experiences and still maintain self control in not talking just about yourself.
  6. Invite others who might be present to participate in an ongoing conversation.

For the long term:
  1. Read lots of books on lots of different subjects.Explore diverse subjects that interest you and have an open perspective on the world, life and people.
  2. Learn a good joke or two that are appropriate for all occasions. Use them sparingly.
  3. Take an improvisation class,
  4. People watch for at least an hour at a time.
  5. Take a chance and practice by going somewhere public (a coffee house perhaps or other social setting) make polite short term conversations with people about your surroundings or perhaps pay a sincere and non predatory compliment to someone. Ask about a book you see someone reading.
  6. Learn to be yourself, have fun in the moment and don't overstay, overstep or dominate a conversation. Explore other people's ideas.
  7. Understand that people have different perspectives and opinions. Always preface your opinions with "It is just my opinion but.." validate other's opinion with "hmm..that is an interesting perspective... I will have to think about that."

Friday 10 January 2014

21 Suggestions for Success


  1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
  2. Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
  3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
  4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
  5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
  6. Be generous.
  7. Have a grateful heart.
  8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
  9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
  10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
  11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
  12. Commit yourself to quality.
  13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
  14. Be loyal.
  15. Be honest.
  16. Be a self-starter.
  17. Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
  18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
  19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
  20. Take good care of those you love.
  21. Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.

Ways to Make Gobs of Money - Seriously

Start with nothing and grow up in a tough neighborhood. Lots of wildly successful people started with nothing and fought hard every day of their lives to make it. Starbucks founder and CEO Howard Schultz and Goldman Sachs CEO Lloyd Blankfein grew up not far from where I did in Brooklyn. Competition and adversity breed great leaders.
Do what you love ... and pray there's a market for it. Steve Jobs said, "The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle." He was absolutely right. If you follow your passion - and so do customers - the money will follow.
Follow the yellow brick road ... to Silicon Valley. The high-tech industry has created enormous wealth for millions of people, and not just top executives, either. Microsoft alone accounts for an estimated 12,000 millionaires among former or current employees. The reason? Technology startups are the land of equity and opportunity.
Own your own business and live like a monk. Two thirds of America's millionaires are self-employed. The vast majority are small business owners who live on budgets well below their means, invest their money, and never received any kind of inheritance, according to the book "The Millionaire Next Door." Do you really need that new car or iPad? Nope.
Take risks, make mistakes and trust your gut. Most people are either ridiculously risk averse or take dumb risks they know they shouldn't take. Take smart risks, the ones that make sense to you. Trust your gut. You'll be wrong more often than not but that's okay. Nobody ever got ahead by playing it safe.
Work your living tail off and make lots of sacrifices. Yahoo CEO Marissa Mayer is a serious workaholic who works 90 hours a week. So does Elon Musk, who runs two companies and is not much of a delegator. The same was true of Steve Jobs when he ran Apple and Pixar. You get out of life what you put in.
Manufacture your own luck. It's said that luck is when opportunity meets preparedness. While it's true that I've been very, very lucky, it's also true that I never stopped searching for opportunities and never hesitated to go for it when I found even a glimmer of a possibility. My advice: quit tweeting and linking and get out and network with real people in the real world.
Diversify, diversify, diversify. That age-old axiom is so true it isn't funny. I have an old friend - a former senior executive like me - whose investment strategy has always been to put his money in as many different places as possible. It takes time and effort but the payoff is huge. Save your money, invest it wisely and diversify.
Of course, you can always call yourself a social media entrepreneur or a self-branded CEO of one and generate all sorts of free online content while the folks at Google and Facebook get rich. The truth is, nobody ever got anywhere by doing what everyone else is doing. You may as well just buy lottery tickets and pray for a miracle.

Steve Tobak is managing partner of Invisor Consulting -- a Silicon Valley-based management and strategy consulting firm -- and a former senior executive of the technology industry


Read more: http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/230582#ixzz2q2BAgy8e

5 Places Your Great Ideas Are Hiding And How to Set Them Free





Studying the marketplace is one of the best ways to come up with new product ideas. If you ask the right questions and look closely, you will find opportunities to invent everywhere. When you study the marketplace for ideas, you're all but eliminating the need to ask yourself whether people are willing to pay for your product and if they need and want it.
When you pull an idea out of thin air, you have to find out if there's actually a need or desire for it. Remember: you don't have to reinvent the wheel to come up with a great idea. I've supported my family for decades by making small improvements to existing ideas.
Here are five places to look for your golden opportunity:
1.With your competition. What do leaders in your industry have planned for the future? Where is the industry headed? These are big questions, but they can be answered in part by checking out your competitions' patent applications. Many patent applications in the United States are published 18 months after they are filed. I don't spend a ton of time perusing the USPTO or doing Google patent searches, but I like to know what my competitors are up to. Checking out other innovations can be a great way to jog your creativity.
2. Inside product reviews. Check out reviews on Amazon.com and other websites. What are consumers saying about products in your industry? What are their complaints? What do they wish were different? You may be able to come up with a better solution to a particular, persistent problem you now know people would pay for.
3. At trade shows. Trade shows are great places to discover opportunities for invention. They always have a special section for new products. This is the first place I visit when I arrive. The excitement and energy at a trade show is palpable. It's impossible not to listen to the speakers, make new relationships, enjoy the special events and not get fired up. There's always at least one speaker who focuses on problems plaguing the industry. Can you be the one to find a solution?
4. In the aisles of your local retailer. Talk to store managers and employees during a quiet time and ask them what kinds of problems customers are having. What are they looking for when they come in? Are they satisfied? They know what is selling and what isn't. There is so much knowledge to be gained simply by asking. Form relationships and tap into that knowledge to jumpstart your brainstorming.
5. In your online search results. There are many articles published online by writers who report on the minute ins and outs of an industry. For example, because I am still inventing for the packaging industry, I keep abreast of what's going on simply by searching for "hot packaging trends" online.
Identifying opportunities ripe for innovation is just the first step. You still need to put your creativity to use and come up with solutions to the problems you identified, inspired by the new trends in your industry. All of these tips share a common thread: In order to keep coming up with great new ideas, you need to stay up-to-date and question the industry you're interested in. Don't get complacent. Get creative.
 

The author is an Entrepreneur contributor. The opinions expressed are those of the writer.
Stephen Key is an inventor, author, speaker and co-founder of InventRight, LLC., a Glenbrook, Nev.-based company that educates entrepreneurs in how to bring ideas to market.



Why Many Smart People Fail as Entrepreneurs

by Rajesh Setty

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Research by Entrepreneur Weekly, Small Business Development Center, Bradley University and University of Tennessee found that the #1 reason why startups fail is incompetence. Yes, incompetence. 
That definitely seems like we are stretching a bit. 
For someone to take the plunge and start a company, he or she needs to be reasonably smart. Then, how come incompetence can be the #1 reason for startups to fail? 
The reason is that they are not talking about incompetence in an absolute sense; they are referring to the competence that is required to operate a business. When you look at it that way, we are all incompetent in a new subject when we start on it. Everybody has to be a beginner before becoming an expert at something. 
So, the real question therefore is: Will that someone put in everything that is required to move from conscious incompetence to unconscious competence in the domain of entrepreneurship – and how long will they take to get there? 
This article is the result of watching several startups up close and personal for more than a decade and having conversations with dozens of entrepreneurs that I am close to. 
Here we go: 
1. Knowledge arbitrage has its limits 
I know this now after paying a price for not knowing it earlier in my life. If smartness were the only criteria to succeed in a startup, I had lots of it when I started my first company more than 20 years ago. 
I was not thinking I was smart, but I had proof to demonstrate it. A few highlights of my own life before I jumped into entrepreneurship:
  • In class X, I ranked 20th for my state (out of 450,000+ students).
  • In class XII, I ranked 2nd for my state (out of 150,000+ students).
  • In the common entrance test for admissions to engineering colleges, I ranked 6th for the state.
  • In Engineering (electronics and communication), I ranked 4th for the university. 
There were achievements outside the academic world:
  • At the age of 13 I published my first book and was awarded as the youngest writer of Karntaka state.
  • Before I was 17 I had published six books (four novels, a collection of poems and a book on mathematics).
  • From age 13-16 I worked as a journalist for a local newspaper and literally wrote hundreds of articles on wide-ranging topics. 
So, I had the academic smarts and the literary smarts at a young age; so in theory, I should have been able to crack the entrepreneurship game. Sadly, I failed miserably. At that time, it was shock, surprise and disbelief for me and for people around me. 
After several years and a lot of reflection, I know that there is no reason for shock, surprise or disbelief. Everything happened the way it should have happened. Honestly, I was not ready for the game of entrepreneurship. While I had demonstrated proof of smartness in two different areas (academic and literary), it was not easy to arbitrage the learning from those areas to make them practical insights that I could apply in my entrepreneurial journey. 
The game was different. It was different enough that it had reached the limits of knowledge arbitrage. There was nothing in my experience that I could draw upon that would let me excel in the new world. 
For starters, both academic and literary worlds could be termed as “solo sports” and the entrepreneurial world definitely is a “team sport;” so the game has to be different. 
2. Support structure may be out of context 
Entrepreneurship not only requires a strong team, but also requires a strong external support team of partners, advisors, board members and service providers. These people who are thinking of supporting you are investing their time, energy, effort and mindshare, which are all limited in quantity. Unless you show real promise with proof, investing in your enterprise is an opportunity cost for them. 
This gets even more complicated if you are smart. If the startup fails, it may seem like there was no problem with you but there must have been some problem with people around you who were supporting you. So, rather than coming to support you with open arms, you might get lukewarm support from the sidelines. If you start making progress, they can jump in to the arcade; and if you start failing, they can just disappear from the sidelines. 
Also, just because someone was supporting you in your area of smartness does not mean that person automatically will support you in another area where you have not proven yourself. 
To complicate the matter, you might also come across as “not coachable,” and that alone will repel a lot of people who are capable and wiling to help. 
3. Entitlement generally leads to disappointment 
I have seen this time and again where someone super smart comes up with an idea and he or she is so sure of it that it borders entitlement. To add to that, the person has an entourage around to say how smart he or she is and why success is almost guaranteed. That false sense of support is something that actually hurts in the long run; but for now it is only strengthening the sense of entitlement. 
The negative side effects of entitlement mentality are many. Here is a short list:
  • Taking people for granted
  • Not being fully prepared to face situations
  • Making too many ungrounded assumptions (including the one where you think others don’t know much)
  • Taking too much credit
  • Not giving enough credit to others 
In general, I think there is only one guaranteed outcome for entitlement — disappointment that comes with a time lag. 
4. Creativity alone won’t pay the bills 
You may be smart and creative and can come up with a dozen options on how to handle the current situation, but ideas alone won’t pay the bills or move the needle. 
The fact about a startup in general is that resources (time, money, connections, etc.) are limited and, until product-market fit is established, it’s going to continue to be the case. Creative options for solving problems all take time; and the more options you have, the more it takes to analyze the best option to pursue. There is also the chance of getting lost in the analysis-paralysis. 
You will sooner rather than later realize that coming up with ideas is not the problem; but executing the ideas that you come up with takes a lot more work, a lot more money and, sadly, a lot more time. 
Why? 
Ideas have no real roadblocks in your mind. Whatever you imagine will unfold brilliantly the way you imagined it. 
In real life, there are roadblocks everywhere, and it takes a whole new level of skill and influence to get your team to buy in to the ideas that you want to execute. 
5. Unable to make the market fall in love with your idea 
My friend Navin Nagiah, CEO of DNN Software, says, “Most entrepreneurs have passion and they fall in love with an idea. But not all of them have the necessary skills to make the market fall in love with that idea.” 
I agree. Having passion is a good start and you must have it if you are signing up to go on an entrepreneurial path. There is also no question about the belief and conviction you must have on your idea. But that alone will rarely make your market fall in love with your idea. 
What the marketplace needs is a story that it can resonate with. If you (or someone in your team) can’t tell a compelling story, you rarely can have a great start. You may be smart in your own field, but that won’t make you a smart storyteller. You need to invest in that craft. 
The problem can get complex as you hang on to your original ideas in the name of persistence. Your past label as a super-smart person is now a liability. If you are that smart, you have to get things right and then it’s just a matter of time until the world sees your point of view. You want to keep going until that happens. 
6. Lacking the beginner’s mind and not practicing effectuation 
First, a definition of the beginner’s mind (from Wikipedia): 
Shoshin is a concept in Zen Buddhism meaning “beginner’s mind.” It refers to having an attitude of openness, eagerness and lack of preconceptions when studying a subject, even when studying at an advanced level, just as a beginner in that subject would. The term is especially used in the study of Zen Buddhism and Japanese martial arts. 
Now, we will look at effectuation: 
Effectuation, according to Darden professor Saras Sarasvathy, is “a logic of thinking, discovered through scientific research, used by expert entrepreneurs to build successful ventures.” In the insightful paper, “What makes entrepreneurs entrepreneurial,” Prof. Saraswathy outlines his research on the major difference between the mindset of the entrepreneurs and the mindset of others. Quick summary: Others will identify a goal and look for resources to help them reach the goal. Entrepreneurs identify all the resources they have and look for goals to reach with those resources. This kind of thinking is called effectuation. 
Combine a beginner’s mind with effectuation and you are ready to pivot to make a business successful. Remove the beginner’s mind and effectual thinking and you will be sticking to your guns as if it’s your life. 
Many smart people unfortunately lack both of the above, and that makes it hard to digest “real” change when it is needed for the startup to survive and thrive. 
My personal belief is that having a beginner’s mind and practicing effectuation is golden even outside of your startup life. It’s a great way to live. 
7. Not willing to be vulnerable 
If you behave as if everything is in “full control,” I doubt that anyone will go out of the way to offer help. On the other hand, if you showcase your vulnerability, you can expect a helping hand or two. Don’t take my word for it — you can do it right after reading this and you will see the results. It’s almost like magic. 
You might be thinking that exposing your vulnerability will make you look weak. In fact, it requires a lot of strength to expose your vulnerability. You have to have an extremely healthy self-esteem to be bold and tell the outside world that you are after all another human being and are vulnerable in more than one area of life. 
The fact of life is that everyone that you met yesterday, everyone that you meet today and everyone that you will meet tomorrow are all vulnerable in one way or the other. Some people show this and get good help, but many more just try to hide it and fight like a lone ranger. 
You and I know this: nobody can read your mind, now or later. If you demand help, you may not get it; and if you don’t ask for help, they may not know that you need help. But, if you keep giving and building an emotional bank balance and show your vulnerability, there is a good chance that you will get help and more. 
You need lots of good help if you want to thrive in the entrepreneurial world! 
Rajesh “Raj” Setty is a serial entrepreneur and in Silicon Valley. He currently serves as president ofWittyParrot. He was instrumental in founding several U.S. and India technology and publishing companies. Raj has been a member of Band of Angels since 2007 and is an award-winning teacher at the Founders Institute. He has authored 13 books. Read his blog and follow him at facebook.com/rajesh301 or at twitter.com/rajsetty.

Wednesday 8 January 2014

India's finest funds for a Equity Portfolio: by Valueresearchonline

Source:  Valueresearchonline
All investment goals can be broken into these basic requirements, which are the bricks out of which your portfolio's building is constructed:
1. Accumulate money over a long term
2. Earn an income
3. Park money temporarily
Let's map these requirements on to the categories with which our analysts work.
Accumulate: This is a job for equity funds, with the only variable being how conservative you'd like to be. At the safest end of the equity spectrum, there are the large cap funds. Then come Large & Mid cap funds and then the most aggressive of them, multi-caps and the mid and small cap funds.
Earn an Income: For individuals, an income is best generated out of MIP funds or fixed maturity funds. However, we haven't included FMPs here because they are closed-end and you can only invest in them in the beginning. As far as MIPs go, you should also take a look at the Post Office MIP option which has excellent returns.
Park Money: This is a job for liquid funds and ultra-short term funds. These fund types are tightly regulated with this kind of a goal in mind and their safety and predictability level is very high. The Fund Analysts' Choice selection will be updated continuously, with funds in following categories:


·         Balanced funds
·         Large cap funds
·         Large & mid cap funds
o    UTI Equity
·         Multicap funds
o    Canara Robeco Equity Diversified Regular
o    Birla Sun Life Frontline Equity
o    UTI Equity
·         Multi cap funds
·         Tax planning funds
·         Mid & Small cap funds